Shalom! My name is Itai and I listen to your podcasts here in Tel Aviv. I’m currently a graduate student reading History, but for ages I was a kibbutznik (a member of a collective Israeli farm). On the kibbutz, I worked with children (one of only two men to do so) and I worked in our commercial dairy, doing veterinary chores, milking our approximately 500 cows three times a day and feeding them. Once a week, I made the 5-hour bus ride to the conservatory in Tel Aviv to study piano. On one fateful trip, a little boy sitting next to me who had been looking out the window turned to me in tears, asking why the men were hitting the mama cow. (They were separating the calf from his mother and she wasn’t happy about it).
In that moment, the little boy’s compassion made the scales fall off my eyes. Yes, I’d been a vegetarian for 25 years. Yes, I knew all my cows by name, played them music in the milking parlor and never used the electric prod. Yes, I was sometimes that man stealing a baby from its mother.
I quit working in the dairy that day and took on the challenge of running the collective kitchen of the kibbutz. I ordered food, planned and prepared meals for 50 or 60 members and friends three times a day and then, washed up. At first, I had 50 carnivores, some folks on Weight Watchers, one other vegetarian and a member with diabetes to cook for. I started each morning baking fresh breads. Israelis are not shy about sharing their likes and dislikes. My friends let me know what they enjoyed. I figured I didn’t have to announce that the kitchen was now only serving vegetarian fare; I only had to make the meals delicious, satisfying and healthy. After the first month, I had 48 vegetarians on my hands and I was dreaming in recipes!
In April, 2003, I woke up one morning and became vegan. I didn’t have a word for it, yet. (In Hebrew, TEVA means ‘nature’ and from the same root, TIVONI means ‘vegan’). By the end of the month, my plate was free of animal products and gradually, the rest of my life has followed suit. Now, each May 1st, I celebrate my vegan ‘birthday’ by cooking a meal for my friends and asking them each to bring one dish (for which I supply recipes and lots of hand-holding as needed). Today is my 4th anniversary of becoming vegan. Friends are arriving soon for supper but before the festivities begin, I want to take a moment to thank you. I can’t begin to tell you how much I benefit from your work – and your passionate, articulate style. You help me stay informed, open my ears to things I hadn’t previously considered, and, by example, provide me with ways of sharing the message of compassion in a thoughtful, effective way.
~Itai in Tel Aviv
I love this story. Itai is a beautiful example of being willing to face the reality of eating dairy and acting joyfully on what he knows. I would love to use this story in my curriculum for teachers in the Middle East and USA. Itai, let me know what you think.
Shalom Rae,
As Colleen Patrick-Goudreau has pointed out so well, we have the capacity to care about and work on a number of issues at the same time. Many people come to realize that our concerns – animal and human rights, peace with justice, racism, homophobia, ecology – are interconnected because we all are connected.
In certain situations, though, one issue may be easier to broach than another. Here, in a region so rife with contentious politics, animal rights may not necessarily be a hot topic, (although there is certainly a growing awareness and lots of activity: http://www.animal-tv.org/html/english/links.html), but that may be a virtue as, by its “neutrality,” it allows us to explore common, underlying issues like violence, compassion and sustainability.
For a year, I taught English and did Aids education in a village “next door” in Jordan. While discussions would turn fiery when Israel or Judaism were mentioned – incredibly uncomfortable for me as an Israeli Jew – people were curious and often amused that I was “nabaati” (‘vegetarian’ in Arabic). One of my amazing 5th graders pointed out that the whole village was practically vegetarian since nobody there could afford to eat animals. There had recently been an honor killing in the village, something that deeply troubled a lot of people but was publicly considered culturally correct. It was much easier for my highschool boys to discuss violence against animals than violence against the girls and women in their lives – but many of them got the connection.
If my own story is helpful to others, I’m thrilled.
Itai,
I will let you know when and how we use your story in our materials for teachers in the middle east and here in North America. Thanks for your beautiful wisdom and your story.
Warmly, Rae
Contact me anytime with other material or questions, etc: rae@simplyenough.com
Itai
I would like to interview you (in English) for a radio show I shall be doing in August on Conscious Nutrition with an international panel.
I am not surprised at your integrity and leadership as you are a kibbutznik, and I highly commend you!
Please contact me :
Thanks
Dorit
This was beautiful….thank you so very much.
And the comments were inspiring as well.
I am college student in the US hoping to live and work in a kibbutz in israel. Since I am vegetarian (perhaps vegan soon!!) and a strong animal rights activist, I have been afraid of the abuses toward animals that I would have to witness without the possibility of doing anything about it in Israel.
Might you know of a kibbutz that treats its animals humanely where I could lend a hand?
Thanks you and shalom,
Marianne
Beautiful story. Thank you for sharing!
Itai,
I have been considering making aliyah, but am scared about my health. I am vegan and had a difficult time finding stores (outside of Jerusalem) that carried vegan products at a reasonable price. I was born and raised in San Francisco, so vegan products have always been readily available to me. Is their any suggestions on where in Tel Aviv area to shop and products to look for. I also don’t read Hebrew and had a difficult time explaining to my boyfriends family that “vegan” means no dairy, meat, eggs..they were so certain that “vegan” meant I eat meat and dairy if they tell me enough times to “just try it an see how good it tastes”…
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Toda,
Amanda
salamanders22@yahoo.com
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Hi Itai,
Could you tell me any vegeterian / vegan kibbutz in Israel? I, too, am a vegan and I’m looking to live on kibbutz after I graduate from college.
I’ve done some web searching but haven’t found anything.
My very best,
Marco
hi itai, i just want to say what an inspiration you are to me (and clearly to many others), and how encouraging and motivating your story is. i have been a whole foods, vegetarian for some time and, for the past year and a half or so, have been nearly totally vegan. hearing your account of how powerfully the emotional impact of that little boy’s tearful query, affected you, really drives home and highlights, for me, the quintessential issue of all the unnecessary suffering and abuse of animals that is the inevitable, unfortunate result of the consumption/use of flesh or animal products.
i am very happy to be here and able to behold and embrace the revolutionary new spiritual/ethical awareness that has now begun permeating and infusing the tel aviv area as well as israel in general. over time, many people (myself included), for whom vegetarianism was once either exclusively or at least primarily a health issue have become much more acutely conscious of, and sensitive to, the sad, painful, often horrific plight of animals in our culture.
this, for growing numbers of us, undoubtedly helps to foster a strengthened resolve, a sharper focus, and the ability to harmoniously amalgamate, integrate, and unify our health and wellness concerns with the imperative ethical/moral values that do – or at least should, constitute an integral component of being human.
so thanks again, itai, for your humanity, for your uplifting story, and for being an excellent role model to which we can all aspire.
all the best – strength, solidarity, and many blessings to you, itai, as well as to all other vegans, aspiring vegans, and perhaps vegetarian-soon-to-be vegans, and heartfelt wishes for health, happiness, prosperity, peace and a very sweet new year this time.
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